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What is DD/LG?

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There are many different and dynamic things that create an enjoyable relationship. Each of us is different, with our own preferences and ideas on things we enjoy and like. Sometimes, these desires can take us down a path less trodden into an unfamiliar kind of relationship that many people won’t know or even think about! DD/LG relationships are one of these more unusual relationships. Keep in mind that we mean less common when we say unusual, and not strange or wrong. As long as both partners are enjoying a DD/LG relationship, then it’s just as normal as any other! It...

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Abusive Doms and What to Look Out For

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In any BDSM relationship, abuse is something that we always need to look out for. While a traditional relationship has very obvious signs that things aren’t going the way that they should be like pain, control, or discomfort, these things are much harder to spot in a BDSM relationship. In fact, some scenes and scenarios incorporate these elements, and they are crucial to the success and happiness of all involved. So how do you spot an abusive relationship when the traditional signs don’t work? Consent Is King in BDSM Image Credit: badgirlsbible.com The undisputed largest factor of what does constitute abuse...

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Beginner’s Guide to DD/LG

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A DD/LG relationship can be extremely rewarding for all kinds of couples. There are many new and interesting sensations to explore, and it can bring a completely different dynamic to your existing relationship. For someone just finding out about it though, the whole thing can be a little overwhelming. Where do you even start? By the end of this article, you should hopefully have at least some idea how to get started and be able to start your own journey exploring the wonderful world of DD/LG. Getting Started with DD/LG Image Credit: ddlg.life The first part of getting started is simply...

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DD/LG Aftercare

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Aftercare is probably the most overlooked part of our sex lives. It doesn’t matter whether you’re in a completely vanilla relationship or take part in some of the most extreme BDSM sessions possible. A little bit of TLC can work wonders after the sex is over. Not only does it help soothe any vulnerability or negativity away, but you can also learn from your experience and make the next session even better! What Is Aftercare? Image Credit: lelo.com So, before we get into the details, let’s talk about what aftercare is. Just like any extra steps you need to take after...

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DD/LG Contracts

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Contracts are an integral part of any BDSM relationship, and DD/LG is no different. With the exchange of power present in these relationships, it’s often left up to the dominant partner to plan out how any scenes will go. That’s why it’s incredibly important for them to know exactly how far they can take any chosen activities. Negotiating a successful contract will give the Little the opportunity to lay out her personal ground rules, as well as giving her Caregiver a better idea of what they want to get out of the relationship. What Goes into a DD/LG Contract? Image...

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